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Does Tragedy Increase Intimacy with Christ?

The question for this devotional is: Does tragedy increase intimacy with Christ? Can our struggles bring us closer or drive us further away from God. So let’s dig in and find out my thoughts? We will start by looking at the Bible. 

Key Verse:

James 1:2-4 (NIV); “2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

Intimacy Without Tragedy?

I think most of us realize that God does not promise us a rose garden when we follow Him. But why does James want us to find joy in our trials, as stated in the verses above? James goes on to explain that trials produce perseverance, which helps us mature in our faith. We may understand the theory behind these words. But what does this concept look like in real life, and how does it change our theology?

Before we dig into life with trials, let’s look at our lives during the good times. Think back to a time before COVID came to our country. Restaurants opened regular schedules, and unemployment rates remained low. We could buy toilet paper and Clorox wipes without limits. And, we attended church in person with live music and singing. During such days, many of us didn’t lose our faith, but we might forget God. Moses warned of getting too comfortable in the following verses:

Moses’ Warning

Deuteronomy 8 (NIV); “11 Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God, failing to observe his commands, his laws and his decrees that I am giving you this day. 12 Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down, 13 and when your herds and flocks grow large and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied, 14 then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.”

Does Tragedy Increase Intimacy with Christ?

Tragedy Leads to Intimacy?

Trials make us more aware of our need for Christ. In desperate times, we pour out our hearts to the Lord. And then we wait and watch for His hand to move. For me, these are the times I am more aware of the nearness of Christ. His presence comforts me, and I find His peace keeps me moving forward. As the pandemic spread, my heart filled with fear for the future, so I sought God. I prayed more often and searched the Bible for His comfort. And God did not disappoint me. James understands this, too, as he penned these words in James 4:8 (NIV); “Come near to God, and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”

In My Life

As I look back over the trials of my life, I see how through them, my intimacy with God deepened. I sought Him, and God moved closer to me. And, I learned I could trust Him to be with me in all circumstances. So, as the good times return after a trial, I remember to thank God. I appreciate all He provides because I know it could all disappear again tomorrow. Another way problems deepen my faith is through sharing how God provided with others. Paul reminds of this fact in 2 Corinthians 1:4 (NIV); “who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” Now, I can understand why James calls us to be joyful in affliction. Difficult times will increase our intimacy with God if we seek Him for help.

In Your Life:

Do you think difficult times increase or decrease your intimacy with God and why? What Bible verses do you rely on when troubles arise in life? How can you share your stories with others to encourage them?

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My dear heavenly Father. Thank you for the many blessings You give me daily. Help me to learn to appreciate the good times and the bad times in my life. Help me to seek intimacy with you more when the troubles hit. You are my rock and my salvation, and I will seek You allows. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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This Post Has 16 Comments

  1. JD Wininger

    Loved the post Ms. Yvonne. You caused me to pause and reflect myself this morning. I love how you answered both ways, as I did the same. Yes, when tragedy strikes, I turn to God for comfort. When prosperity comes, I turn to God with praise and thanksgiving. It really all comes down to relationship doesn’t it ma’am; and intimacy with God is forged at both ends of this emotional spectrum. Amen my friend! Amen!

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      Thanks so much JD. It is about relationship and trust even when the road is difficult. I am surprised by how many turn away from God in the hard times. God bless.

  2. Ava Pennington

    I wish it weren’t so, but yes, trials often do cause us to draw nearer to God than we would in good times. Although I don’t think it’s a matter of “I sought God and He moved closer to me.” I think it’s more that we move closer to Him!

  3. Nancy E. Head

    Drawing close to God helps us find comfort in Him. And He really is the only place to go for help and healing.

  4. Melissa G. Henderson

    Thank you for the reminder to always go to God. In good times and in bad times, go to God. Give thanks, give praise with a grateful heart. 🙂

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      It is so important to never forgot Fox even in the good times. Thanks Melissa and God bless.

  5. Jessica Brodie

    I’ve definitely drawn much closer to God in times of tragedy. It’s like everything is stripped bare and it’s just the important stuff. Great piece!!

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      We do learn what is the most important part of life. Thanks for your encouragement and God bless you Jessica

  6. Melinda Viergever Inman

    It really is astonishing how the Lord takes the tragedies and hardships of our lives and uses these to pull us closer to him in intimate fellowship and an increased understanding of him. We draw near to the Lord as he draws near to us in these hard times. I wish this wasn’t the key to our growth, but I know that I’ve grown more deeply during tragedy than I do during those times when all is well.

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      Me too Melinda. But, I also learned how easy it is to ignore God when things are going well. We can be so fickle and I am trying to change. Thanks Melinda and God bless.

  7. Linda Sammaritan

    I’ve noticed it is the condition of the person’s heart as to whether they draw close to God or turn away in tragedy. Lovers of God draw closer. Those who who were full of lip service to Him or never claimed to love God, often turn away, blaming God for the problems.

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      I have noticed that myself too and am still amazed at how easily some turn away in trouble times. Thanks for commenting Linda and God bless

  8. karentfriday

    Yvonne, good reflection and insight. Trials and hard times increase my seeking God and intimacy with Him. Every valley experience has brought me closer to the Lord by depending on Him every second and step of the way.

    1. Yvonne Morgan

      Amen, Karen. I found it the same in my life. God bless.

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