In a world that treats marriage as temporary and love as disposable, God calls us to something deeper, something holy. Valentine’s Day can be a sweet reminder of affection, but it can also be an opportunity to pause and reflect on what love truly means in a covenant relationship. Marriage is not perfect, but it is precious. And when two people choose to honor God, fight for one another, and stay rooted in faith, their love becomes a powerful testimony. Let’s look at what Scripture says about honoring marriage and why it matters now more than ever.
Read:
“Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” Hebrews 13:4 (NIV).
Encouragement for Marriage:
The thought of marriage conjures up vivid images from “The Princess Bride,” specifically the iconic wedding scene. The bishop, in a slurred voice, begins the ceremony. “Mawage. Mawage is what bwings us togethah today.” The memory brings a fresh wave of giggles; the sheer absurdity of it all still tickles me. Marriage is a profound commitment, requiring diligent work and unwavering dedication to build a lasting, faithful, and successful union.
My husband and I celebrated four decades of marriage last year by reminiscing over old photos and laughing at our youthfulness. The forty years formed a tapestry of highs and lows, with our son’s death nearly tearing it apart. Our relationship thrived on the simple yet powerful act of never giving up on each other, a bond that weathered every storm. We made a sacred promise of eternal love, and through thick and thin, we fought tooth and nail to keep it.
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Effective communication, marked by clear dialogue and active listening, is pivotal to our achievements. We even gave each other permission to say things like, “I love you always, but I don’t like you today,” during our sometimes-heated arguments; a strange comfort comes from the honesty. We say “I love you” many times each day, sometimes shouting it, sometimes murmuring it, but always with heartfelt meaning. Before bed, we attempt to talk things through, smoothing out any wrinkles in our relationship. We pray for each other, discussing our shared faith and praising God together. As the world views marriage as disposable, our faith calls us to honor the sacred union God established.
Make it a point to fight for your marriage, lifting it up in daily prayer, seeking God’s strength and guidance. Faith builds a strong marriage, portraying the union as a reflection of Christ’s love for the church. This requires consistent forgiveness, open and respectful communication, mutual service, collaborative conflict resolution, and seeking wisdom from scripture and spiritual leaders. The scent of prayer and devotion fills the home, strengthening the bond.
Prayer:
Dear Lord, bless our marriage. May our love grow stronger with each passing day, like a sturdy oak. And may we grant ourselves the patience, empathy, and resilience to stand by each other through all situations. May our relationship be a testament to Your unfailing love, always shining with Your grace and truth. Bind us together in faithfulness, a partnership that reflects your magnificence in all we do. Amen.
Valentine’s Day may come once a year, but we live out our covenant love daily through one prayer, one choice, and one act of faithfulness at a time.
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Yvonne M. Morgan is a Christian #author, #blogger, and #speaker. #BibleGatewayPartner
Matthew 28:19 “Therefore, GO and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.”
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Marriage is a special blessing. My husband and I will celebrate 47 years of marriage of March 3, 2026. Yes, there have been trials and unexpected journeys such as cancer and caring for aging parents. God is with us in every journey. Showing love in marriage can show others how to shine the love of God.
That is so awesome Melissa. Marriage is a real blessing when we keep God in it. Blessings
Thanks for sharing this beautiful message, Yvonne!
Thank you Barbara. Blessings to you
Love Valentine’s Day and this post. My husband and I made it to 32 years but not to 40— something I regret. Congratulations!
I’m so sorry Candyce. Thanks and God bless
Wonderful words on covenant marriage, Yvonne. My husband and I also celebrated 4 decades of marriage last year. It’s a milestone not easily reached and not often celebrated in our culture. Thanks for your words here.
I’m so glad you are still able to add to your years together as Mike continues to heal. Blessings Karen.
I’m so thankful for my husband and our marriage. Marriage is a gift and a calling to love and selflessness.
So true Debbie. It’s a blessing. God bless
Thank you, Yvonne, for this message to encourage us in our marriages. I am so thankful to God for my husband. He has strengthened my faith and covered me and our family in love.
Amen Melissa. Blessings on your marriage
Thanks for this excellent message. Marriage is a gift from God and helps us learn so much, too!
Thanks Jessica and blessings on your marriage